THIS TIME FOR REAL

i just saw this tv show and the host was saying sth like that.
i am a piece of wood crafted art work and those ppl who come against me are like sandpaper. they come to me with hurtful words to hurt me and rub it in.. but they dont know that as they rub it in on me, i become finner and a better piece of work. and them, as sandpaper, after they have finished their worth as it, what left of them are just pieces of rubbish paper.
this hit me quite hardly. for once i realise, yes. that is true. so what ppl are against you? so what ppl dun all the time agree with you? so wad if ppl talk bad bout you, and say things that are not true about you? at the end of the day, you will become the fine peice of work. and they, will only become rubbishh and useless piece of paper. we need these ppl to help us, to mould us into better ppl. and in fact, we should thank them. without them, we wouldnt have grown, we wouldnt have become a better person.
maybe i didnt put this simple theory in proper language but i tried my best. and in such times, if we are able to think positively and take comments in positive light, im sure we'll all be fine ladies and gentleman my friends. i cant do this just yet, i still get all angry and stuff when such stuff are pt across to me. but im trying. im learning to be a better a person. im growing. sounds cheesy, but i am. and i hope my friends would too.

forgiveness is not endurance nor it is tolerance. its taking a step back and give a breather space. to achieve is not to do it on purpose nor to do it when nth happens. it is when you do it at the time where you need it most. note to all. and note to self.

i feel that im beginning to think more and more as time goes by. and its definitely a good sign. (: